| Dating Advice for Men - Are The Rules of Dating Killing Your Chances? |
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It never ceases to amaze me, how guys who are struggling to get women know all of the "rules" of dating by the book. These are the guys that can tell you every single reason for why it is not the right time for them to approach a woman, or why it's inevitable that they will get rejected. You know what relying on most of these "rules" does for most men?
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