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For a human being, emotion is the radar detector for unconsciousness.

We are born to evolve and that's where you either buy in or reject the Laws of Nature.... emotions demonstrate where we're stuck not where we're going.

But emotion is important. People without emotion are capable of huge acts of cruelty.

However, people who are run by emotions are capable of even worse acts of stupidity. Emotional people keep speaking as if they are not in charge of themselves. Like their emotions are outside of their control, and that's not true.

Look at the moon. Now you can see a beautiful glowing object or you can see the most probable source of tsunami, earthquakes and hurricanes. So, you feel the emotion about the moon, you feel good or bad about it, but you thought the thoughts that caused those emotions. it all depended on how you chose to see the moon. It's called perspective and perspective causes emotion.

An unconscious emotional person will say, "I feel sad" a conscious person will say, "the way I'm looking at this is making me feel sad." One is a victim and empowers their emotions, one is feeling their emotions but accepting responsibility for causing them.

An unconscious person will say, "they make me so angry" a conscious person will say, "the way I judge them brings my anger up."

The difference is like a vast ocean. One person is saying, "this is what I feel and I can't do anything about it" the other person is saying "This is how I feel and I know my perspective is causing it, so if I want to change how I feel, I'll change that perspective and get on with life."

So perspective can be unconscious or conscious

A conscious perspective sees the moon as both a good and bad object. They know there's two sides to everything in nature, including people, break-ups, moons, getting together and vegamite.

An unconscious perspective sees the moon as a great thing, or a bad thing, but never both. So the unconscious perspective produces big emotion.

Emotions come from lopsided, unbalanced perspectives.

A conscious person might see their car as fantastic, so they are with a perspective on their car that is lopsided and therefore they have an emotion about it. If their car gets stolen they are attached and grieve for it. Or they hate their car and wish it to be stolen. Either way, their perspective on the car, dictates their emotion about it. The person is not unconscious, their thinking process is.

So, lopsided perspectives - things we choose to see and think - cause emotions and emotions cause uppers and downers.

Mass consciousness, including organised religions support lopsided perspectives - emotion. Its how you cause people to do, buy, feel, act and change, you cause them emotion. So, if you promise emotional uppers (which are supported by mass consciousness, brand products, marketing, advertising and organised religion) you'll probably get a positive response to your suggestions. Of course, the more positive response you get, the bigger the downer that individual will experience in some other area of life.

Holistic Humans

Motivation and self development programs encourage uppers. They do so because it makes people feel good, feel motivated, act in a way that makes the "environment" more engaged. But these motivations are not holistic. An upper in one area of life generates a downer in another.

A great example of this is Work versus Relationship. A work HR department might measure stress reduction, engagement or even motivation of teams and individuals. Do they ever consider the "BALANCE" effect of those work based emotions outside the work environment.

If you meet someone in the office and you say, "wow that person has a lot of positive energy" do you ever ask, "I wonder where their balance is going?" Because their is a balance and it may be going to their spouse, children, dog, cat, family, health or clients. This is vital awareness. Balance exists and if you don't find it, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

My client had breast cancer. She was one of the most loved people, and gave herself so much to others. A bright happy soul, but nobody asked, "where's the balance" and it was in her self-depreciative thoughts. When the cancer came everyone who knew her were shocked. She then came to me asking "WHY" and it's almost like neon signs screaming at me where her balance was. We worked on that for a month and she knew, there'd be no remission.

Mass Unconsciousness is therefore the result.

Mass Unconsciousness is a THINKING PROCESS and wants Upper emotions without downers.

Say a guy meets a girl... he wants a perspective of her that is all wonderful. He sees the opportunity for being together, this is called "blind love" and it is blind not because it can't see, but because it refuses to have a balanced perspective about her. He wants the upper emotion because it causes an upper downstairs. if you follow my drift...

When, in the future, he realises that this lady, woman, person is human, and has two sides, an upside and a downside, he'll say, "you changed" but she was always the same, he's just trying to stay stuck in his upper emotion.

The fact is, he never really knew her. He only wanted her good side, an upper perspective, causing upper emotion, causing upper downstairs. So he has Upper Addiction.... Unconscious thinking and is attached to only knowing the good news about her.

Now here's the real problem.

Before he met her he was feeling a bit down. After he met her he was feeling a bit up.

Now he's with her, and sees two sides to her, he's feeling a bit down.

Is the problem the girl, woman, partner? No

It is his feeling down that's a problem. Many people ask me why they feel so down from their relationship break up and I simply say, "that's your natural perspective on life surfacing" you were down before and are simply back where you started. Emotionally addicted or religiously attached people want an all upside outcome. Automatically they build a balance in their life of Uppers (they're usually very strict on the spouse and children to keep the upper up) and downers, which are often anti social, judgemental and critical of alternatives.

Their their addiction to uppers leads them to eat sugar, buy coke, drink beer, paddle kayaks and meet women.... They're on a Easter Egg hunt, permanently looking for Uppers, even at work they are looking for accolade, acceptance, compliments, success, winning and positive feedback without criticism or challenge. They are continually looking for the next "high" and running from continuity.

If you look at the work of the Motivational Masters of the last Fifty Years, "Robbins, Carneggie, Tracey, Chopra, Williamson, Dwyer, and more... " they're all selling uppers. That's what they sell,Uppers to people who are automatically having downers, it's just not a balanced perspective, not holistic human reality.

THE ALTERNATIVE - THINK INSPIRED

To think Inspired simply means you get off the spin cycle of emotional rhetoric. You look for a different outcome than an all upper experience. So, think inspired is holistic, it's balanced and has a bigger outcome than an emotional high.

Think Inspired is evolved thinking.

Evolved thinking is inspired thinking. Simply, instead of responding to emotion you feel emotion but don't trust emotions. So, instead of following an emotion for three years and then finding out it was all a big half truth, you seek out balanced perspectives on things, before, not after you act.

Think Inspired simply changes the intent of a person's choices.

Love, and every moment of love you have in life is a moment that touches your heart and soul.

How do you know the difference between love and emotion.

Love wants, needs, desires, NOTHING.