How My Wifes Emotional Intelligence Persuaded Me Not To Leave Her - Internet Marketing Australia

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Someone who is emotionally intelligent is able to identify the best possible way to react to a situation, without letting their own emotions get in the way of their judgement. I consider my wife emotionally intelligent.

A lot of women are scared of getting their men mad. When men are mad, bad things can happen: they can get beaten up, they can get yelled at, etc. That's why they generally try and stay submissive and subservient, listening to whatever the man says.

At the opposite end of the spectrum, there are men who are afraid of upsetting their wives and having them unleash their anger on them. Same deal.

If someone is being unreasonable and you're able to show them that they're doing so, you're a good partner to have. Here's an example of how my wife verbally "abused" me to snap me out of my anger.

I'm a state level table tennis player. I often play tournaments against people from other parts of the country. I've won a few years before, but last year was probably my worst season. I performed poorly and I wasn't even selected for the state team.

I know, I know, it's just a game, but I took it home sometimes to my wife. She would patiently hear me out and cop my whining. One day, it got really heated and I snapped at her for not supporting me when I was playing. I was so heated that I threatened to walk out.

She snapped back at me. Well, I wouldn't say "snapped". In a measured, controlled, stern tone, she replied, "well maybe if you didn't spend so much time complaining and more time practicing, you won't be playing so badly! Just man up and get over it. It's just a game."

That shook me up a bit. Having her retaliate like that was pretty rare. She's pretty patient so for her to lose her composure even just for a moment demonstrates how much of a dick I was.

She fought fire with fire and thus extinguished me. I apologised to her and told her that I was being an asshole and that I would stop complaining and just get over it. I started winning regularly again after that.

She cast aside her fear of angering me to see to it that I would get out of my poor form. If she had just kept quiet, I would have kept being an idiot, ranting on like the sore loser that I was. She was doing me, herself and our relationship a favour by giving me a taste of my own medicine.

Are there any situations you can think of where you should have been stern with your man instead of accepting of what he says? If you can tell the difference between telling him off to put him down and telling him off to get him out of his rut, you'll stand to help him out a lot later throughout your marriage.

And he'll love you all the more for that.