How to Gain Confidence With Women - Internet Marketing Australia

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If you're a guy who lacks confidence with women, you know how much it sucks. In order to get confident, you need to start interacting with women more often, more deeply. It's not as hard as you might think; here are some easy ways to meet women and develop your social skills with them:

1. Go to Dance Classes

Learning to dance at a dance class is the easiest way I know to meet women. If you've never learned to dance, this is your big chance. Women love guys who can dance, and if that alone wasn't enough motivation, it also gives you exercise, sheds weight, keeps you active, helps you meet people, and is great fun all at the same time.

Pick a dance style based on the music you like, since you'll be hearing a lot of it. If you like Rock & Roll music, go to a Rock & Roll dance class. If you like Latin music, check out a Salsa class. If you like modern chart toppers, hit a Ceroc or Modern Jive class. If swing is your thing, hit a Swing dance class. Whatever you like, there's a style out there to suit you.

Partner dancing will boost your confidence more quickly than solo styles such as Hip-Hop, Jazz or Funk, but the odd class in those will help your other dance styles too. It doesn't really matter what style you choose, so long as you get out there and do it. Give yourself enough time to get the hang of it; it may feel uncomfortable at first while you're learning, but it gets more fun as you get more competent. Don't give up or skip this just because you feel you have two left feet; we've all got that at the beginning. Persist and you'll get great rewards out of this one.

So do a Google search for "dance classes" in your area, pick a partner style and turn up. Even better is to enroll in an 8 or 10 week course, or buy a multi-class pass to help keep you motivated to keep going back. If you're single, this also is the easiest way to meet fit, attractive women.

2. Take a Female Friend to the Supermarket

Guys, often we have the idea that a "date" should be tremendously romantic, as though we can swoon a woman into falling for us. Romance is important down the track, but initially the most important thing is simply that a woman feels comfortable around us. If we can organise that, then romantic feelings can develop down the track.

The easiest way to get a woman to feel comfortable around us is to do something we're all comfortable with, together. Everyone goes grocery shopping at the supermarket, so although it may sound unusual on a date, this is an ideal comfort-building activity. Organise a time to hang out with a female friend, and tell her "Let's go grab some groceries for lunch/dinner".

If she's someone you've got your eye on, rather than have a fancy dinner prepared when you invite her around to your place, take her to the supermarket with you to buy the ingredients you need. Make sure you have a shopping list prepared so you can chill out while you're there, and then get her to help out while you're cooking dinner or making lunch. Doing common tasks like this helps put a woman at ease and see you as a regular guy who she can hang out with.

3. Start Calling Your Female Friends Regularly

How is your confidence talking to women on the phone?

Talking on the phone is like any other social skill; you either practise it, or you lose it. You won't feel confident calling women on the phone if you're out of practise. This is particularly important if you're single: Otherwise, when you get a woman's phone number you'll hesitate and more than likely blow it when you do call them.

The way out of this is to start calling your female friends regularly, just to say "hi".

Set up a spreadsheet with all your female friend's numbers, and begin calling them on a routine basis. Work through your list regularly, sorting it by the date of your last call, so that you keep in touch with all your female friends. When you ring them, open with:

"Hi, It's Fred here. I can't talk for long, but I just wanted to call to say hello."

Then move on to talking about something you teased her or joked with her about last time you talked. Comedians call this a "call-back", and it's a very effective way of developing or re-establishing rapport with someone. Take a note of something significant from this conversation to use next time, and put it in your spreadsheet so you don't forget it.

When you meet new women and get their phone numbers, add them to your spreadsheet. Call one of your existing friends who you know are always glad to hear from you before calling someone for the first time. This will put you in a positive mood so that you can treat the stranger like an old friend.

Keeping in touch with your female friends will also help keep you in their social loop. Even if you're not interested in dating them, your female friends have other friends who you might not have met yet that could well be your type. So put that spreadsheet together, and start calling!

These are just a few of over 50 activities in the Confident Man Free Confidence Building Course.