| Relationship Advice For Women: How To Make Your Man Buy The $1000 Item Instead Of The $100 One |
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There is a lot of relationship advice for women out there on the Internet. Unfortunately, it doesn't address a lot of the problems, wants or needs of real women. Now, I'm no woman, but I'm married to one whose problems I hear about every day. It's my job to listen and help her solve them, as her husband. One of her common problems is something she doesn't talk to me about, yet I know it really bugs her and that's trying to get me to buy her more expensive gifts. Being the psychologist that I am, I know what she's doing to get me to do it. Here's the step-by-step process she's using to make me get her the Salvatore Ferragamo flats instead of the Joanne Mercer flats.
There is a lot of relationship advice for women out there on the Internet. Unfortunately, it doesn\'t address a lot of the problems, wants or needs of real women. Now, I\'m no woman, but I\'m married to one whose problems I hear about every day. It\'s my job to listen and help her solve them, as her husband. One of her common problems is something she doesn\'t talk to me about, yet I know it really bugs her and that\'s trying to get me to buy her more expensive gifts. Being the psychologist that I am, I know what she\'s doing to get me to do it. Here\'s the step-by-step process she\'s using to make me get her the Salvatore Ferragamo flats instead of the Joanne Mercer flats. fleshlight | lubricants | cal exotics | water based lubes There is a lot of relationship advice for women out there on the Internet. Unfortunately, it doesn't address a lot of the problems, wants or needs of real women. Now, I'm no woman, but I'm married to one whose problems I hear about every day. It's my job to listen and help her solve them, as her husband. One of her common problems is something she doesn't talk to me about, yet I know it really bugs her and that's trying to get me to buy her more expensive gifts. Being the psychologist that I am, I know what she's doing to get me to do it. Here's the step-by-step process she's using to make me get her the Salvatore Ferragamo flats instead of the Joanne Mercer flats. 1. But first, some psychology... This is something you're not going to believe at first, but us guys actually love to buy women expensive things. Actually, scratch that. Us guys love to buy expensive things in general, but if we're buying it for someone else, we want it even more. By asking us to buy something expensive, it challenges us and calls out to our instinct to be a better provider. That makes us guys work smarter and to figure out ways to get our hands on them, just to prove our worth to women. Can you see why we might gladly buy you things we can't afford now? 2. Dropping Hints My wife is clever. She won't openly tell me that she wants something, but instead what she'll do is ask me a question that involves getting me to picture her using or wearing the thing that she wants. What this does is drop some subtle hints that get me to look at what she wants, without directly looking at it. For example, the other day, she was looking at some pictures of some shoes that she wanted. She found some models wearing the shoes and walking down the cat walk. She told me not to look at the woman, not the shoes. She then explains what the model is wearing, so that I'm at least aware of it. 3. The Challenge What she does is then issue what I call a "soft challenge". She simply tells me, "these shoes are gorgeous, but I'd never be able to wear them in a million years." By doing this, she communicates to me that she wants the shoes and is in a way challenging my ability to provide for her. By doing this, I don't get angry at her for being unreasonable. She's basically set up a perfect opportunity to surprise her with these beautiful shoes. I can't help myself, as a man. If I feel challenged, I will rise to it to prove something. She got her shoes and I felt more validated as a man. Hopefully you put this relationship advice for women to use. You probably have some ideas already, don't you? |
